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i koped this frm viviang's blog. (:
Attention to all guys :D
guys...realize that the girl holding onto u..is
PERFECT in her own special way.
The way she
laughs..
The way she
sleeps..The way she
loves you..
The way she tries to
please you...
Always remember that.
She can always get up and walk away,getting someone else who can love her more.
For all you know,there is someone out there wooing her already,but she is rejecting,a maybe perfect love for her..
There might also be someone out there..who is willing to love her more than you are loving her now,fufill her every need and love her as much as she loves you.
Understand that.
Imagine this, guys.When you are holding her today...
and then you cheat on her by hugging and kissing another gal.
and then you run back to her...
and u do the same....
but you see love in her eyes...
What do you think?
Do you feel the hurt?Can you feel the guilt?She loves you not because you are good looking,have money,buy her things,make her parents happy,or that you have a car.
She loves you for who you are.Your every
touch, every
word you say,
everything you do.
Guys.
Cherish and appreciate your girl.
Don't break her fragile heart.
She is the only one who can love you that way.
You won't wanna regret letting go of that special girl you have.
For everything she has done for you,the least you can do is to give her unconditional love as she has given to you.
love the girl in your heart, not in your mind.
if you base your relationship on feelings, it will fail for there are ups & downs in feelings.
girls are there to be loved, not toyed around.
love her for who she is.don't even think about changing any bit about her.
6 billion people in this world & 6billion different personalities.
she's special & she will stay that way.
you change any part of her, you'll change her forever.
don't substitute her for anyone else,they are just unique in their own ways.
love whole-heartedly.she sacrificed alot for you so you'd better really treasure her.
she could have just got up & date a so much more dashing guy in town but she chose you instead all because of love.
so love her guys, not play with her.
don't just get the girl to beg you to stay or what so ever.
if you're with her, love her.
don't cause a strain in the relationship, you'll end up loving each other out of pity or charity,that's not respecting love at all.
respect love the way it is & everything will be the best it can be.
don't expect perfection from her.
she's the only one in the world &she's done the best she could.
like another girl while you're in a relationship?
then I think it's time you remain single for a while.
don't go around breaking girls' hearts, it's the most tragic thing to do.
tell the truth, never hide anything from her.
if you want her to tell you everything, do the same.
don't go calling other girls "honey"or "darling", how would it feel if your girl calls other guys the sameway?
be faithful, enough is enough.
socialise only when you're single.
you socialise & flirt around is to get the girl of your dreams.
get it over when she's already yours,don't ask for more.
it never kills to be romantic.
think,
be flexible.
getting that diamond ring isn't the only gift for her.
be realistic, she's human & she lives life just like you.
something sweet & simple always get the job done.
money doesn't exist between couples,it's the
love.never promise her that you'll love her forever because your forever might end the next day.
love her as if each day is the last.sweet talks only apply for singles,not for attached guys.
do that & you'll really break your girl's heart.
isn't good being too well-known too,it'll give her a sense of insecurity.
remember,
INSECURITY.promise her & make sure you never break it.
swear to her & make sure you keep it.
pledge your love to her & her alone.
loving her is giving her your heart to break it but trusting her not to.
instead, she'll cherish it & protect it.
that's love.
give her your heart, your life, your everything.
lay down your life & prepare to die for her when the need arises.
but stay strong & live through another day, she can never live without you.
never, ever walk out of her life.
she won't just cry her heart out & carry on living as per normal, she'd die.
her heart that you've broken,how would you ever know how she feels?
winning a girl's heart isn't the final victory.
don't leave her once you've won her love.
love her all the way till the end of time, love her till marriage,love her till old age, love her tilldeath.
if you can love her till the end of time, you've earned the honor & respect for you've truly loved her.
she chose you because she believes that you can fulfil your promise.
win her heart & love her over.remember, the girl isn't a trophy for display, she's someone to love, not to show off to your "friends".
stay humble yet proud that
she's the one for you.respect her for the way she is, never despise her & never mistreat her,never even think of toying with her.
:DD